Are we perfect !!!

A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all. The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo.

Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage." she offered.

"Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with. The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists..

"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.

"What's wrong?" she asked.

"Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your list.."

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it. "Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

IN LIFE, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us..?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see and praise the good and try our best to forget the bad. Nobody's perfect but we can find perfectness in them to change the way we see them.

- We are not trying to condone what is bad. Correction does much, but encouragement does more.

How observant U are???

A lecturer teaching medicine was giving a classoom observation. He took out a jar of yellow liquid. "This," he explained, "is urine. To be a doctor, you have to be observant of color, smell, sight, and taste."

After saying so, he dipped his finger into the jar and put it into his mouth. His class watched in amazement, most in disgust. But being the good students that they were, the jar was passed, and one by one, they dipped their finger into the jar and put it into their mouths.

After the last student was done, the lecturer shook his head. "If any of you had been observant, you would have noticed that I put my second finger into the jar and my third finger into my mouth." :-) :-) :-)

Power of Mind!!!

Amazing...


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What is depression? Ever thought of it's root cause!!!

Title : Root cause of depression & its remedy.

Depression is the alteration of mind when the mind is reacting in this world &
Inspiration is the creative force of the same mind when the mind is not reacting, when the mind is only acting...
For example the actors are just acting in the movies, so there performance is marvelous & flawless, but in their real life when they start reacting to every actions/ situations, they also fall flat.

To get rid of depression :

1. Stop reacting:
It means learn to accept the things as they come to You & negotiate through, to the best of your ability.
Always remember, we are here in this world to receive success as well as failure. We‘ve to train our self to accept both with equal ease.
Even failure is a boon to us, as they show the wrong path which we should not follow, means a caution to future :-) With that experience we can fearlessly start again... & with true enthusiasm.

2. Be enough protective to negative criticisms. When you start finding recognition of your work, always from others, there is a greater chance that you will be depressed. Instead judge yourself & if you are right (true to your heart), then nothing to worry at all.

3. Wherever we function through doubts, we perspire.
When we function through doubtless commitment we inspire. That’s the secret :-)

4. When U find anyone (friend or spouse) in state of depression, give enough recognition, that to sincerely & too lovingly. Thereby that person will be out of depression & U‘ll get even better results. To know what that is, just try it out & feel the same.

5. When we define our success in comparison to other’s success, depression fires up, which cranks away our energy & enthusiasm to degrade further levels. Instead try to rejoice whatever you have & remain calm & serene. A Peaceful mind can only excel in every aspect of life. Success is guaranteed in that state of mind.

6. Understand it deep from your heart, that Depression is our own creation only. If you are a self realized person or practicing spirituality, then you can easily sort the cause of it & very soon cure the disease.

Conclusion:
When bodily we get tired, exhausted, heated we start throwing perspiration, dirt & bad smell.
Similarly when we are mentally frustrated, exhausted, dejected we start throwing depression. (Also a state when we tend to seek attention).

So purify your mind everyday, as you take bath daily to get rid of the bodily impurities.
And this can be easily achieved by practicing spiritual activities like meditation, prayers, pranayams etc.